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sELF on a SHELF
Relationships can be hard and conflict is easy, especially after an election and around the holidays. We’re supposed to love one another as Jesus loves us, but how? Put yourself on a shelf, adopt Jesus’ command as a way of life, and be the elf on the shelf that everyone is looking for as you Serve, Host, Encourage, Love, and Forgive.
11/24 - Serve: Serving someone you disagree with, are in conflict with, or are different from reminds you that they’re human because it requires you to get close to them. And with proximity comes intimacy, which could lead to the restoration you’re looking for.
12/1 - Host: Jesus surrounded Himself with complex, messy people like you and I. Going out of your way to show hospitality to someone you’re in conflict with could very well break down the walls that have been put up.
12/8 - Encourage: Maybe the person you’re in conflict with needs to be reminded of Who God is, who they are, and what God’s called them to do. What if you’re the person they need that from? It’s pretty difficult to remain in conflict with someone who consistently calls out the best in them.
12/15 - Listen: Studies show the brain can’t tell the difference between being loved and being heard. Oftentimes, people experience conflict because they don’t feel heard. What if listening to one another could bring unity with one another?
12/22 - Forgive: This may be the hardest thing to do. People may have done extremely hurtful things to you or someone you love. Jesus forgave from the cross knowing full well they would keep doing what they’re doing…why?